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Monday, June 08, 2009

What Happened Next

Thank you all for your support around Lionel's death. It was a hard week. Flora was great. Lithus was great. And the house was very empty. Life, however, goes on.



Thursday morning, Lithus called for my morning phone call (he always calls before he leaves the hotel for work) and said "Can you be on a plane tonight?" At which point I said "No way in hell." Then we argued a bit until he finally assured me that I didn't need to get everything done that he had asked me to do and I let go of needing to do everything he had asked me to do. Without those constraints, the answer was yes, actually, I could be on a plane that night. And so I was.



By Friday evening, I was in Mexico. He met me at the Cancun airport with his own suitcase. Since we hadn't had a honeymoon back in February, he decided the first two days of my time in Mexico would be honeymoon. We went to Cancun Desire. Oh my. It was everything you'd want a honeymoon to be. More.

Sunday, we were back in Cancun proper. We spent the afternoon tooling around the touristy areas but made it "home" ~ old town Cancun ~ in time for dinner with the crew. And here we are. Maybe until tomorrow. Maybe until next month. Who knows.

Holding the monkey made me miss Lionel's soft furriness. Seeing the man walk his dog made me tear up. And life goes on. In unusual and wonderful ways.

Those are Pobble Thoughts. That and a buck fifty will get you una cafe.

6 comments:

CrackerLilo said...

Oh, sweetie, I'm so glad for you and Lithus both that you could get onto that plane after all! Wonderful!

Krystal said...

Enjoy yourself! You NEED this.

appsRus said...

Good on ya

traci said...

Wow. I'm still sorry about Lionel. And grateful you can be where you are right now. Peace.

Rose said...

Good that you two could spend time together. It's going to take time to heal....

Gay Soldier's Husband said...

Oh my sainted auntie... there be nekkid people there!

Sign me up...